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(16 12-SEC. THE INDIANAPOLIS STAR E. Susan Acree J. Brenda Barnhardt Weddings and and Kenneth R. Daniel Lowe R.

Pace Susan Acree and Kenneth R. Lowe were married Saturday in Lawrence United Methodist Church. Their parents are Mr. Mrs. Philip Acree and and Mrs.

Kenneth Lowe. Brenda Whitt and Brian May were honor attendants. Beth Ann Shannon and Daniel Bruce Oonk Beth Ann Shannon and Daniel Bruce Oonk were married Saturday in Speedway (Ind.) United Methodist Church. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Robert Shannon. She was graduated from Indiana University and is a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority. Her husband is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Casey Oonk of Holland.

Mich. He was graduated from Hope College. Mrs. Donald Robbins of Shelbyville and Louie Brooks of Holland were honor attendants. Debra Kay Shaw and Larry Dean Lee of Terre Haute were married Saturday in Faith Missionary Church.

The bride was graduated from Franklin College. She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Darrell Shaw. The bridegroom is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. Jack Lee of Carmel. He was graduated from Indiana University-Purdue University, Indianapolis. Honor attendants were Mrs. Greg Evans.

Joni Shaw and Van Olson. Make muslin dress first. brides advised Lincoln, Neb. (UPI) Brides or other wedding party members who plan to make their own outfits should start early enough to make the dresses first from muslin. says Linda Biles, an extension clothing specialist at the University of Nebraska.

While it takes a little extra time. it can save grief later on because you can make alterations on the muslin and transfer them to the pattern and fashion fabric. The muslin skirt need not be full length, she says, just long enough to make sure it fits at the waist and hips. Bucklin (Kan.) United Methodist Church was the setting Saturday for the wedding of Brenda J. Barnhardt and Daniel R.

Pace of Eureka, Kan. The bride is the daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Robert G. Barnhardt Jr.

of Bucklin. She was graduated from Baker University. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. James Pace Jr.

He also was graduated from Baker. Honor attendants were Mrs. Gary Jardon of Lawrence, and Donald Ballew. Barbara Joann Smith and Dana Irvin Caldwell Barbara Joann Smith and Dana Irvin Caldwell were married Saturday in Morristown (Ind.) Christian Church. Honor attendants were Ann Smith of Fountaintown, Mrs.

Phil Nigh of Elkhorn, and Gary Davis of Morristown. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Maurice D. Smith of Fountaintown and the late Mr. Smith.

She was graduated from Indiana Central University. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Paul H. Caldwell of Morristown.

Rachel Ann Golay and Christopher William Maloney Westside Church of the Nazarene was the setting Saturday for the wedding of Rachel Ann Golay a and Christopher William Maloney. Mr. and Mrs. David L. Golay are parents of the bride.

She attended Indiana University-Purdue University, Indianapolis, and Mount Vernon Nazarene College. The bridegroom is the son of Sylvia Bowers and William Maloney, both of Cincinnati, Ohio. He was graduated from Mount Vernon Nazarene College. Honor attendants were Rebecca G. Golay and Lynn Maloney of Cincinnati.

Carolyn Ann Younce and Kevin James O'Hara Carolyn Ann Younce of Indianapolis and Kevin James O'Hara were married Saturday in Indianapolis Christian Fellowship. Parents of the bride are Mr. and Mrs. Dan Younce of Vernon, Fla. The bridegroom is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. James O'Hara of Greenwood. Honor attendants were Debbie Vester and Dan McIntosh. Rita K. Bock and Robert L.

Wilson were married Saturday in First Lutheran Church. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Ronald M. Potter and stepdaughter of Mr. Potter.

The bridegroom is the son of Betty Barber and Frank Wilson of New Albany. Honor attendants were Patty Hatzo and Glen Lorenz of Barnhart, Mo. Lisbeth Anne Steinmetz and Roy Edward Graham The Manor House at Windridge was the setting Saturday for the wedding of Lisbeth Anne Steinmetz and Roy Edward Graham. The Rev. Larry Whinnery, St.

Vincent Hospital chaplain, performed the ceremony. The bride is the daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Edward F. Steinmetz.

She was graduated from Butler University. The bridegroom is the son of Genevieve Graham. He attended Indiana University. Honor attendants were Janne Rae Ketrow and Robert Graham of Granger. Yvonne Carol Matthews and Mark Steven Kemp Rainbow Acres was the setting! Saturday for the wedding of Yvonne Carol Matthews and Mark Steven Kemp of Columbus.

Mr. and Mrs. George Lee Matthews are parents of the bride. Her husband is the son of Mrs. Carlos Branham of Greenwood and Thomas Harry Kemp.

Honor attendants were Mrs. Ken Hawver of Jeffersonville and James Baker of Bloomington. Katrina Ann Roth and Donald C. Oberlies Katrina Ann Roth and Donald C. Oberlies were married April 4 in Zion Lutheran Church at Seymour.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Benny J. Roth of Seymour. She attends Indiana State University.

The bridegroom is the son Mrs. Richard A. Oberlies. He attends Rose Human Institute of Technology and is a member of Alpha Tau Omega Fraternity. First Baptist Church at Greenwood was the setting Saturday for the wedding of Lee Anne Koepper and Brian Friedman.

The bride is the daughter of David L. Koepper of Greenwood and the late Mrs. Koepper. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Leo Friedman. Honor attendants were Mrs. Ronnie L. Bray of Greenwood and Mark Friedman. Jamie Sue Crowder and Danny Lee Richard Lee Anne Koepper and Brian Friedman Jamie Sue Crowder and Danny Lee Richard were married Saturday in Garfield Park United Church of Christ.

Parents of the are Beverly A. Crowder and Crowder. The bride, bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Wesley Richard.

Honor attendants were Rebecca L. Williams of Bluffton and Ken Watson. Cindy Sue Sell and David R. Sherrier Jr. Ball State University graduates, Cindy Sue Sell and David R.

Sherrier both of Fairfield, Ohio, were married April 4 in Forest Chapel United Methodist Church at Cincinnati, Ohio. The bride is the daughter of Sue M. Sell and Thomas H. Sell, both Bourbon. The bridegroom is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. David R. Sherrier. He is a member of Alpha Tau Omega Fraternity. Rhonda Elaine Anders and Seaman Mark Andrew Syberg Rhonda Elaine Anders and Seaman Mark Andrew Syberg were married Saturday in Southport Heights Christian Church.

Mr. and Mrs. Charles R. Anders of Southport are parents of the bride. She was graduated from ITT Institute of Technology.

The bridegroom is the son of Mr. r. and Mrs. William A. Syberg.

He is stationed with the Navy at Great Lakes, Ill. Honor attendants were Charlene Scott of Hindman, and Keith A. Syberg of Kirksville, Mo. Friend of the family Don't make dining table a battleground und BY THE FAMILY SERVICE ASSOCIATION When a youngster becomes a teenager, it's almost certain his eating habits will change. Children have unqiue personalities and differ greatly in what, how much, where and when they eat.

Some boys eat lots to put on weight and develop muscles. Others are into health foods or diet that go hand in hand with body-building programs. Some avoid certain foods in hope of preventing acne. Some girls starve themselves to keep their figure. Others don't seem to gain, no matter how much they eat.

Some are overweight because they don't exercise enough. Some fill up on junk foods and are poorly nourished from not enough vegetables, eggs and fruits. Some would in the school cafeteria as willingly as they'd go to the gas chamber. And in the evenings, working parents often opt for "quick" rather than nutritious meals. IN ONE FAMILY, Joe and Rob are eating almost non-stop.

"Nothing is safe in the refrigerator," Mom says. No sooner are up from the table than they're wolfing down more milk and sandwiches, cake and cookies. "We're headed for bankruptcy if this keeps up," their dad laments. But Alice's parents can't get her to eat much of anything. She started by skipping breakfast, then moved from one fad diet to the next.

She's quick to turn down the simple food Mom recommends as a "balanced diet," but will occasionally talk about the gourmet food served at a friend's house, and Mom feels rejected. Right now, fashion is more important to Alice than nutrition and health. Teen-agers often experience wide swings in moods, from highs to lows. At both extremes, they may say they "can't eat." An occasional loss of appetite, like before a contest or prom, may be normal, but chronic poor appetite may signal depression. And those who feel deprived of love and affection may nibble all the time.

Rational, educational ap proaches probably will not overcome the youth's emotional reasons for not eating. PARENTS HAVE legitimate concerns about their children's health. They get uncomfortable with a teen-ager starving himself, gorging or selecting foods with little nutritional value. Conflicts arise over food. Any attempt to change habits or make suggestions comes across as "criticism" or "control," which teen-agers resist with, "Stop treating me like a or "I'll eat what I want," "It's my body," "Don't try to tell me what like and not like." Rules about eating set down by parents may become impossible to enforce.

If teen-agers have the money, they'll buy what they want to eat. After all, teen-agers do have to accept responsibility for themselves, and parents don't have to blame themselves if advice is not followed. Food battles don't make teenagers eat better and often have the opposite effect: tying them in knots and making them dread mealtime. BUT PARENTS can involve them in planning meals, shopping, preparing foods. Sharing in the work helps them get the perspective that food is first of all a means of survival, not a weapon in the battle for independence.

With hectic and irregular schedules, having a family meal is more difficult. As many times week as possible, a family meal with a pleasant atmosphere, with listening, sharing, involving everyone in conversation will result in a feeling of belonging which can do a lot to improve eating habits. If you're in a stew over your teenagers' eating habits, come in for some tips on how to relax and enjoy. Family Service Association, 634-6341, is a United Way agency. VOLUNTEER The Volunteer Action COORDINATOR Public radio staCenter of the United Way has volunteer Get Involved tion WIAN needs a volunteer with skills opportunity listings from more than 175 in volunteer program management to agencies and organizations in the greater coordinate the volunteers utilized for Indianapolis area.

OFFICE WORK The Girls Club of teers for one-to-one home visitations with fund drives and station assignments. The Call the center, 923-1466. Greater Indianapolis needs an adult elderly persons. Four hours a week can hours are flexible, but a six-month comvolunteer to assist with typing, filing and be arranged. mitment is expected.

cataloging resource materials. Four to Call Barbara Maxwell, 462-3758. Call Carol Harm, 266-4141. eight hours a week can be scheduled on HELP YOUTH The Indianapolis weekdays. Day Treatment Unit seeks adult volun- Call Mary Stenner, 632-7430.

teers to work with youth offenders in DAY CAMP Summer volunteers remedial education classes and to serve will be needed at Mary Rigg Neighbor- WHITE RIVER PROJECT Youth, as listeners. Hours are from 9 a.m. to hood Center to assist with activities in adult volunteers and community service 11:30 a.m. on weekdays. Supervision is HELP HANDICAPPED Volunteers the preschool and grade school day groups are needed to help with the White provided by the teachers.

are sought by the Johnson County Associ- camps. Minimum age is 15. Hours are River Clean Up Project from 9 a.m. to 1 Call Ronald Rice, 232-1441. ation for Retarded Citizens to assist flexible on weekdays.

p.m. April 25. Interested people should be therapists and teachers at Gateway, with Call Joy Massy, 639-6106. at least 12 years old and willing to pick the preschool program or the daily living up litter along the banks of the river. programs for adults.

Minimum age is 16. Call Nancy Heinrich, Sierra Club coorWeekday morning or afternoon hours are dinator, 352-1316. DRIVERS Volunteers with public available. licenses are Call Nancy Mueller, 736-8476. GARDENING The Eastside Health- Service organizations needing volunneeded by Heritage Place to transport care Center needs a volunteer to help teers may send their requests and isolated senior citizens to and from supervise patients who want to start a telephone numbers to "Get Involved, Northside area activities.

Weekday hours small garden. One or two hours for two The Indianapolis Star Departcan be arranged. FRIENDLY VISITORS Hancock days each week can be arranged. ment, P.O. Box 145, Indianapolis, Ind.

Call Ruth Cooper, 283-6662. County Senior Services seeks adult volun- Call Susan Hall, 353-8061. 46206. -SUNDAY, APRIL 19, 1981 Sandra Kay Lamberth and Robert John Zielepuza Sandra Kay Lamberth and Robert John Zielepuza, both of Tarpon Springs, were married at Lake Tarpon at Tarpon Springs. The Rev.

Eugene Vetter performed the ceremony. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Audrey 0. Lamberth of Greenwood and the late Mr. Lamberth.

She was graduated from Ball State University and is a member of Mu Phi Epsilon honorary. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Norman Zielepuza of Sterling Heights, Mich. He was graduated from the Detroit (Mich.) School of Lettering.

Honor attendants were Lori Ann Zielepuza of Tarpon Springs and Robert Crockford of Port Richey, Fla. Sheryl Lou French and Richard Ward Elliott were married Saturday in Immanuel 1 United Church of Christ. The bride attended Indiana University and was graduated from Indiana University-Purdue University, Indianapolis. She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Richard N. French Jr. The bridegroom attended IUPUI. He is the son of Phyllis Elliott and Dick Elliott of Wrightsville Beach, N.C. Honor attendants were Mrs.

Kenneth Widgery of Mary Esther, and James Fountain. Rebecca Meeks and Glen Henson Chapel Rock Christian Church was the setting April 4 for the wedding of Rebecca Meeks and Glen Henson. Parents of the bride are Mr. and Mrs. Bobby L.

Meeks. The bridegroom is the son of Glenda Henson and Doyle Henson. The Star's The Indianapolis Star will publish a picture of the bride or bridal couple with EITHER their engagement OR wedding announcement. Details may be submitted on The Star's information form. To obtain it.

send your request, including name. address and zip code, to Brides. The Indianapolis Star Department, Woodland Springs Christian Church at Carmel was the setting Saturday for the wedding of Michele Diane Preston, and Brian Allen Shanks. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Kenneth A.

Sharp of Carmel and William Preston Jr. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. David Shanks of Carmel. Honor attendants were Teri Delello and Tim Shanks, both of Carmel.

Michele Diane Preston and Brian Allen Shanks Rita K. Bock and Robert L. Wilson Sheryl Lou French and Richard Ward Elliott Kelly Jean McCoy and Brian Francis Davis Kelly Jean McCoy and Brian Francis Davis were married Saturday in. Eagledale Baptist Church. The bride was graduated from Ball State University and is a member of Sigma Kappa Sorority and Rho Lambda honorary.

She is the daughter of Mrs. Robert A. Miller and the stepdaughter of Mr. Miller. The bridegroom is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. E. Paul Davis. He is graduate of Purdue University and member of Pi Alpha Xi honorary. Honor attendants were Paula Kay Yocum and Peter Lorenz Rinek of Lafayette.

Debra Kay Shaw and Larry Dean Lee Mary Catherine Maled and John Russell Nichols III Mary Catherine Maled and John Russell Nichols III were married April 11 in St. Michael Catholic Church. The bride was graduated from Purdue University and received a master's degree from Indiana University-Purdue University, Indianapolis. She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Thomas Maled. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. John Russell Nichols of Greenwood. He is a graduate of Greenville College.

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